THE GOLDEN GIRLS

"The Golden Girls"

 

People let me tell you ‘ bout my best friends…(a little flashback to the theme song from “The Courtship of Eddie’s Father”) 

Meet Pam and Tresa. We’ve been best buds since my freshman year in college. I won’t tell you how long that’s been, but I will say it seems just like yesterday. They live in the Washington D.C. area and this picture was taken there during the Christmas holidays. 

These are the two women who know me inside and out. As I like to say, they know my dirt!  We share our joys, our disappointments, our frustrations and most importantly we share a strong faith in God.   I can always count on them to tell me when I’m way out of control and to give me sound advice. 

We don’t see each other as often as we’d like but we talk every week.  Also, we have nicknames for each other.  Pam is the “Trashmonger”(don’t ask how we came up with that name), Tresa is the “Goober”, and I am “Nanny Num Num” because I had a tendency to do some not so “smart” things in college. They would tell you even after college I made some “num num” choices. Oh well, I’d like to see it as I added a bit of the “unpredicatable” element to the trio. 

Pam is the solid, objective one. She is the champion for the underdogs of the world. Pam takes in stray dogs and loves having her quiet time with a cup of tea.  But she does have an alter ego…when she puts on her long, black, fur coat and dark shades Pam transforms into Diana Ross!!! It’s hilarious! 

Tresa is the one who wants to experience life and everything it has to offer. She has a warm, soft heart. And she tends to look at people through rose colored glasses…which isn’t a bad thing. She will give you the shirt off her back if you needed it and is always there for support and encouragement. 

I won’t describe my personality in the friendship. Maybe they will write in and give you the scoop. (smile) Wouldn’t that be interesting??!! Hmmmm. 

So, tell me about your best friends. I can’t imagine my life without my BFF’s. 

Take Care, 

Danita 

p.s. Yes, that’s me with the glasses!

You ask….I attempt to answer!

                                                         

Hello there!

Every now and then I post this topic because I know you have questions about media, media personalities, my crazy personality, or whatever.

So, fire away and I will do my best to answer you.

Questions anyone?

Danita

SAY IT AIN’T SNOOOOOW!!

                                

Old Man Winter is about to deliver a knockout to Northeast Ohio. No, let me change that. He is dropping the white stuff like crazy as I type. I like a little snow during the holidays, but after that it can go away. This is how it is in Northeast Ohio in the winter.  Snow is ALWAYS a part of our vocabulary.

But, that doesn’t mean you have to like it. Do you think if I click my heels three times I’ll be in the Bahamas? (smile) Okay I had delusional moment, I’m back now.

When I see snow covered trees, snowmen, and snow angels I kind of  like it. Kids having snowball fights outside and sledding down hills looks like so much fun. Then I say, snow is great!  But when I get in my car and I have to drive in it and through it…well, let’s just say my happy face takes a vacation.

Now don’t get me wrong. I know how to handle snow. I have my degree from Snowflake University.  I guess it’s hard to get used to so much of it for soooo long.

So, what do you do when the lake effect snow blast hits? What’s your mood? Your thoughts? How about some driving tips?

Stay warm and be safe!

Danita “Frosty” Harris

Happy New Year!

       

Hello all you beautiful people!

Yes, it’s 2010 and I’m feeling pretty good about it. 2009 wasn’t horrible for me, but it wasn’t one of my best years either.

In 2010 I’m anticipating positive change in my life. I want to be less stressed and put things in the proper perspective. Remember, your situation may not change but how you “view” your situation is what makes the difference.

Hopefully, I will be better at balancing home, work, church, and me. I discovered towards the end of 2009 that I didn’t take enough “me” time. You have to take a timeout for yourself. Do something that’s just for you…period. You need time to kick back and relax or do something fun and exciting. It doesn’t have to cost a lot of money either.

Try shutting the phone off for about an hour or so and play your favorite CD while sipping your favorite herbal tea or coffee. It works!!  I plan to give myself more “me” time in 2010. That’s a resolution I must keep!

What are some things you learned in 2009 that will affect how you handle things this year?  I’m curious. OK, you’re right. I’m just downright nosey!!

Share your thoughts!

Take Care,

Danita

HAPPY THANKSGIVING…Yes I’m cooking!

                       

Happy Thanksgiving to all of you!   Yes, I will be cooking my famous corn souffle inspired by Food Network Star Paula Deen….I just love her!  I’ve actually had requests for it so I can’t disappoint my fans.  Someone asked me how to make the stuffing. I replied with two words…Stove Top! Yes, I will have Stove Top Stuffing. My husband makes his oyster dressing that only HE eats.

I may break out my SPAM appetizers…but I’m not sure if our guests are ready for that yet.(smile)

May your Thanksgiving be filled with great tasting food, good conversation and a nice nap on the couch!

Take Care,

Danita

National Adoption Awareness Month

November is the month that highlights the importance of finding foster children permanent homes.  There are so many wonderful children who need loving couples and families to adopt them and give them a quality life.

Adoption Network Cleveland is  a wonderful organization that helps children and adults make a connection. Betsie Norris is the founder and executive director of Adoption Network Cleveland and if you click the link below, you’ll hear how this is amore than just a job to her…it’s personal.

 http://www.newsnet5.com/video/21578374/index.html

For more information go to www.adoptionnetwork.org

Take Care,

Danita

Justin’s “Fashionable” Birthday!

       

A tropical escape…ahhhhh!

So my last blog entry was all about the cold weather blahs and I appreciate all of your comments. It made me feel like I wasn’t  alone in this “mood” of mine. Well, I did a story on this wonderful place that’s right here in Cleveland. It’s warm, exotic and unique.

If you need a pick me up, I highly recommend a visit to this tropical treasure. Yes, it really is in Cleveland. Oh, you don’t believe me?? Click the link below to see what I’m talking about!

http://www.newsnet5.com/video/21320667/index.html

Take Care!

Danita

I’m in a mood!

                                                                       

Do you ever have those times when you’re in a “mood”. You’re not necessarily miserable but you’re not jumping for joy either. It’s like you’re one step from being in a funk!  That would pretty much wrap up my attitude so far this week.

It’s weird because I have moments of peace and clarity but they seem to quickly fade away. Could it be………….the cold, grey weather? Yep, sprinkled with a few of life’s quirky challenges.(smile)

The “mood” is the precursor to the winter blahs and I have to fight it. I’m determined to come out of this emotional rut with a smile. So here’s my strategy:

*Wear bright colors…today I pulled my bright pink jacket out of the closet hoping it would lift my spirits. You’re wondering if it worked. Honestly, just a little bit. Let’s move on!

*Add a little nose candy to my life…well I am a huge fan of Airwick plug ins and I burn oils from Bath and Body Works in my house. This really works. When my home smells great I feel a lot better. I wish I could bring some type of aromatherapy to work…nope, not going to happen.

*Get out in the crisp air and do something fun!….Sounds great but the cold air makes me want to stay inside. Sorry!  I know I’m a case!

*Comfort food and drink…now you’re talking my language. Most people don’t know this but I”m really a stay-at-home kind of girl. My home is my sanctuary. I love to eat some really good lasagna, salad, and a glass of sweet tea.  On a cold morning, I wake up and make a pot of hazelnut coffee. Ahhhhh, that hits the spot.  Grab the remote and turn on the Lifetime channel and I’m good for the day. Lifetime is addictive….but it’s sooooo good. (smile)

*Hang out with your “inner circle” friends…these are the people who don’t care that I’m on television, they will tell me my breath stinks and check me when I get out of hand. Not that that happens often of course! (wink) We go out to the mall or movies in our jeans and sweats, no makeup, hair neatly done but nothing special and eat Chik-fil-A  at the food court. That definitely pulls me out of my “mood”!

*Play with Justin….I’m a poster child for Colgate when I play with my dog. I can have the worse day and Justin will run to me and jump in my arms and give me lots of dog kisses. They just wipe all the bad vibes away.  Justin is a true bad mood buster!

So, there it is. My personal guide to beating the blahs. What’s your personal guide to fend off the “mood”. Come on I want to hear from you. I know I’m not alone in this.

Take Care,

Danita

Hot Hollywood Hunks!

                                                          

 

OK, I’m confessing my celebrity crushes.  I’ve actually met and interviewed two of them, the other one….well let’s just say I see him in my dreams every now and then.

Actually, my husband was talking to me recently about his celebrity crushes. He revealed to me that Beyonce, Halle Berry, and Janet Jackson were his Dreamgirls….after me of course!  He put a little extra emphasis on Halle since her hair is short again.

So, that got me to thinking about my Dreamguys!!  LL Cool J, Denzel Washington, and Maxwell are my top celebrity hunks. They’re smart, down-to-earth, talented and oh yeah, super duper sexy!

LL has abs of steel. Denzel just pops on the silver screen. And Maxwell sings like an angel.  They’re just hot!

So, I know I’m not the only one who has celebrity crushes.  Come on, confess your secret dream dates!!!  I want to hear from you!

Take Care,

Danita

p.s. My  husband says he’s hotter than all of them put together!!! And I told him, of course you are dear!(wink)