Michael Jackson…my thoughts

July 9, 2009 by prattd

I grew up listening to the Jackson 5.  Songs like ABC, Never Can Say Goodbye, I Want you Back, etc.  are forever etched in my mind. Honestly, it’s still hard for me to believe that Michael Jackson is gone. It’s hard to believe that we’ll never see him moonwalk across a stage again or hear him say “hee-hee”.

The memorial tribute was very well done. All of the participants shared heart-felt sentiments about Jackson and how he touched their lives. I watched because regardless of what Jackson did or didn’t do off the stage, his music is timeless. He knew how to create songs that would make you want to dance or sing even if you didn’t know all the words.

So, as I was watching the tribute and listening to Brooke Shields, I began to get a little emotional. Honestly, I was surprised at my reaction. Shields really humanized Jackson and I could empathize with her feeling of loss. Because to her Michael was her friend and they shared some wonderful times together. I especially liked the part when she referred to him as The Little Prince even though the world labels him the King of Pop. She connected with Michael’s child-like nature because she too was forced into a life of “adultdom”  while she was still a child.

Okay, so Shields is talking and I feel this shift in my emotions. I’m feeling a bit sad. Then, Michael’s brother Jermaine Jackson gets up on stage and sings Michael’s favorite song “Smile”.  That did it. The flood gates opened and the tears started flowing. I’m literally sobbing at this point because I can’t imagine how much inner strength it took for Jermaine to sing at his brother’s funeral. And sing beautifully I might add!

That was truly a powerful moment. By the time I got to work, the whole family was on stage and Marlon was speaking. Then Paris took the mic and said how much she loved her dad and I was a Kleenex mess again!  That little girl said Michael was a great father to her and that’s a memory she will always have.

You’re probably saying I am just a soft, mushy, emotional woman. Well….you’re right I am.  I was moved by his daughter’s words. Let’s face it, those kids lost their dad. That’s tough to deal with at any age, but when you’re a kid it’s extra hard.

Michael Jackson wasn’t perfect. I know this. But his musical legacy is something that millions will treasure for a lifetime. And through all his faults, mishaps, and quirkiness I believe in his heart and mind he really thought he could heal the world through his music.

My prayer now is that his family heals and is able to move on. Hopefully they will be able to continue some of Michael’s humanitarian work so that this world can really be a better place for you and me.

Send me your thoughts!

Take Care,

Danita

Viva Las Vegas!

June 17, 2009 by prattd

Just got back from a wonderful vacation in Vegas.  It truly was a great escape for me and the hubby. But I have to confess, the food was super-duper good! I think too good.  The buffets are my weakness and my gut and thighs show it.(lol)

Anyway,  comedian/singer Wayne Brady has a show at the Venetian and it was so hilarious. This is one talented man. His improv is  unbelievable and I enjoyed how he used members of the audience as part of his show. He also sings a few songs from his CD, which garnered a Grammy nomination, and has some pretty slick dance moves. Go Wayne!  My favorite part of the show is when he impersonated Prince and changed the lyrics to Purple Rain. I closed my eyes and I’m telling you, it was like I was at a Prince concert.

We met some really nice couples from Texas, Washington, Nevada, and California. And of course once we said we were from Cleveland, the conversation went straight to the Cavaliers and Lebron James.  You say Cleveland, the world says Lebron. Will he stay or will he go?  I just said I hope he stays.

The weather in Vegas was below normal according to the local weather gurus, which was great for us.  We love low to mid 80’s and sunshine. It was perfect.  We visited the Aquarium, saw the lions at MGM, and braved the roller coaster at Circus Circus. My husband dreaded that decision…I won’t elaborate.

We did have a celebrity sighting…well I didn’t, my husband did. My husband met up with a childhood friend who knows actor Mekhi Phifer.  Phifer stars on NBC’s ER and has done numerous feature films. So of course on the night when I stay in the room and my husband has “guys night out”, that’s the night Phifer shows up and they all hang out together.  Did my husband bring me back an autograph? Did he tell Mekhi I am a fan? Did he call me on my cell and have Mekhi get on the phone so that I could act like a total groupie?

The answer would be NO!! None of the above. He kept the moment in the “testosterone circle”. That’s fine. Because when we go back to Vegas and I’m hanging out with Beyonce, Janet, and Halle I will forget some things too!! LOL!

All jokes aside, we had a great time in Vegas. I’m sure we will return for another fun-filled retreat!

Take Care,

Danita

King James not King JESUS!

June 3, 2009 by prattd

My people, my people, my people.  The internet is full of commentary on Lebron’s actions, or shall I say lack of action, after the CAVS loss on Saturday to Orlando. Lebron didn’t shake hands with the winning team nor did he speak with the media.

I’m kind of on the fence about this, because I can understand both sides.  Lebron was hurt and thought silence was better than saying something he would probably regret later. I get that. BUT I do think it shows great sportsmanship when you can lose and still shake your opponents hand.

Tony Pluto from the Plain Dealer bought up a good point…he’s only 24 years old. Pluto’s column challenged all of us to remember how we were at that age. Could we have handled millions of dollars coming out of high school and having every move we make monitored by media?  It was a good question. My answer is no.

Lebron is entitled to have a bad day. An off moment. A lapse in good judgement. His nickname is “King James” not King Jesus!  The man isn’t perfect. He is a man. A HU-man being. Prone to flaws and character inconsistencies like the rest of us.

Would I have liked to have seen him shake hands with the Magic? Yes. Will I condemn him for not doing it. No!  Give me a break people. Does one night cancel out all of the GOOD things he has done and is still doing?

Let’s all take a deep breath and look at the positive. The CAVS had a great season. The team had a chemistry that was undeniable and hopefully it will be even better next year.

This “shake-gate” will pass and Lebron will still be the wonderfully gifted athlete that he is.  Don’t kill the man with malicious words for this one act.

It’s time to move on!

GO CAVS!!!

Take Care,

Danita

Donna Kelly…a heart for the homeless

May 20, 2009 by prattd

She is an outreach nurse with Care Alliance and she’s passionate about helping the homeless. But her desire to help goes beyond providing quality health care.

Donna discovered that books were the perfect medicine for her clients. You may say “books”? Yep, books! 

Click on the link below to hear about the FIRST homeless book club in the country!

http://www.newsnet5.com/video/19501997/index.html

Donna you’re awesome and to all the gentlemen in the book club you ROCK!!!

If you would like more information on the book club you can reach Donna Kelly at dkelly@carealliance.org   or 216-924-0275.

Take Care,

Danita

Ruth Johnson…a story of purpose

May 13, 2009 by prattd

She grew up in a strong Christian home.  Believing the best in people. Until something bad happened. She wasn’t abused by her enemies. She was abused by a boyfriend and the man she thought she would love forever.

Ruth Johnson’s story is hard to hear, but needs to be told. There are many women who suffer through domestic violence not knowing where to turn. Hopefully her transparency and candidness will inspire a woman to seek help because help is available.

If you need more information, Ruth founded Pneuma Life Foundation for the Prevention of Abusive Family Environments. You can contact them via e-mail pneumalife1996@yahoo.com

Ruth has a powerful story and I feel honored that she trusted me with it. Click on the link below to watch it.

http://www.newsnet5.com/video/19443533/index.html

Take Care,

Danita

p.s. Ruth is now happily re-married to a wonderful man and she continues to train and inform people on domestic violence issues.

Marisol Lugo…an inspirtation

May 6, 2009 by prattd

Every now and then I meet people who inspire me to be a better person. Marisol Lugo is one of those people.  She is strong, courageous, intelligent and a beautiful woman inside and out.

Her life hasn’t been easy. She’s had some rough times growing up and her adult life has been filled with challenges. Yet  Marisol took her “mess” and turned it into a message. A message of hope.

Transitional Housing played a key role in her turnaround. If you would like more information on their programs go to  www.transitionalhousinginc.com

I am glad that I know her. I know the sky is the limit for this determined woman. Click on the link below to hear “Marisol’s Story”.

Take Care,
Danita

Random thoughts

April 10, 2009 by prattd

*I received a complement today from a student who was shadowing me from Glenville High School. He told me he thought I was 28 years old!! God Bless him and his “youthful” eyes!

*My goddaughter stayed with us last night (she’s 20 years old) and we were looking at old pictures. She says to me “Mom, you look  nice and thin in these pictures.  Now you have a big butt!”  (I will not comment on what happened to her after she said that…I plead the fifth)

*I’m over the filet-0-fish song. It’s time to let it go. No more singing fish, no more singing fish…I’m not laughing at all!!

*My dog Justin is on spring break next week. Yep, he’s going on vacation for a nice loooong relaxing week. Where you ask?  To that thriving, cool, laid back suburb called Strongsville. Home to Grandmommy and Grandpoppy.  Yippee!! (Justin mommy loves ya, she just wants you to “share” your love with others for a bit)

* I’ll be celebrating my 3rd wedding anniversary in a couple of months and my father is finally coming to the realization that I’m married. He stopped asking me to hang out with him and my mom on valentine’s day and the footy pajama gifts are no more.  Wait a minute, he did buy me an “Elmo Live” doll recently.  Oh well, I’ll keep praying!

Take Care,

Danita

Spring really hasn’t sprung

April 2, 2009 by prattd

Ok people. Why do I see flip flops and crusty heels? Why am I seeing shorts and tank tops?  Don’t you know the relationship Mother Nature has with Northeast Ohio?  She seduces you into thinking that warm weather is here to stay and then BAM here comes the snow.

Didn’t you learn your lessonn last week? Do you remember the frost that was on your car windshield a few days ago?   Be wise. It’s not quite summer time and the Easter Bunny isn’t totally in the safe zone either. We’ve had our share of snow-filled Easter mornings.

Spring really hasn’t sprung! The calendar means nothing in Northeast Ohio. Wait until the end of May, and then maybe Mother Nature will take her cold breath elsewhere.

Until then,…leave the flip flops in the closet, go get a great pedicure(men too), model your shorts in your home only, and wait for the “true” summer breeze!

Stay Classy!

Danita

Bernice A. King….powerful and motivating

April 1, 2009 by prattd

She’s the daughter of the late Coretta Scott King and Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. 

Rev. Bernice A. King is a positive force  with more than just her father’s legacy in her arsenal.

I was honored to sit and talk to her about today’s youth, the call on her life to preach and yes, what she does to relax a little bit.  She’s a very warm spirit that’s determined to make a change in this world.

Watch tonight’s Woman 2 Woman by clicking the link below and feel free to send me your thoughts. I love hearing from you!

http://www.newsnet5.com/video/19059077/index.html

Take Care,

Danita

Sherri Bevan Walsh…prosecutor with a heart!

March 25, 2009 by prattd

County prosecutor….mean, tough, rough, hard-nosed? Yes, sometimes they have to be. But Summit County prosecutor Sherri Bevan Walsh is pleasant, has lots of positive energy, and fun to be around. She defies the stereotype of the tough prosecutor.  Now don’t get me wrong, she can pull out her “stern” side when she has to. But overall, she’s a mom, a wife, a daughter, a sister and she’s passionate about helping people.

Check out her story from tonight’s Woman 2 Woman!

http://www.newsnet5.com/video/19005434/index.html